There is a common theme or question that arises in the conversations I have with most people that are looking for coaching, guidance, mentorship, and healing. The question is “why is this happening to me?” and the theme is that they feel they are at the effect of the circumstances around them, and they want to change them. Even in its most subtle form, this is a victim mentality, and is a dynamic of helplessness and powerlessness. When people earnestly seek change from this p
